Balancing Act

Well I have spent the last 3 weeks student teaching 3 days a week on top of being a mom, wife, and taking care of household chores, and I am feeling a bit (okay very) overwhelmed. Now Monday the fun begins.

Monday my university coursework officially begins, which means I will be gone 5 days a week 40 hours (plus an evening class), with homework and assignments.

My question to all of you amazing women is what is your trick to balancing it all?

I realize that I am going to have to let go of some of the housework, which means the cleanliness level is going to decline a bit. I just honestly don’t know how I’m going to handle that because having things neat and organized is what keeps peace in my life. It keeps my stress level a little lower, and just generally makes me happy.

Asking for help seems to be the most common advice I seem to get from people, and honestly it is probably the hardest for me to follow. I HATE asking others for help. In my mind I want to still be the same kind of mom and wife that I am now, before returning to school (and eventually working). I want to make dinner, do my family’s laundry, etc, and I totally realize that this is old fashioned. Doing these things for my family is a sort of validation for me. I feel like a better mom to my daughter when I do her laundry, prep her food/bottles, and put her to bed. I feel like a better wife when I do my husband’s laundry, clean, and make meals. None of these things are true to anyone around me, but they hold true for me.

I’m trying desperately to mentally prepare myself to ask for help.

I’m trying to let go of the need for perfection (or at least close to it) around the house.

I’m trying to keep my priorities in order.

But these things are all a lot harder than I ever thought they would be.

Please give me all the advice or words of wisdom you have Mommas!

Love Always,

Sam

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3 thoughts on “Balancing Act

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  2. I’m currently in my observation period of student teaching. I’m gone all day from 7:30am-8:00pm 4 days a week. I don’t have a baby, but I do have a large man child of my own. I go to the store and meal prep on Sundays, meaning lunches and dinners are taken care of for the most part. I also use down time between my placement and my own classes to get my homework done and other responsibilities that don’t require me to be at home. And it may be hard, but ask your husband for help with the household chores, you wont need him to do them forever!

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    • Thanks girl! Good luck with your placement too! My husband helps as much as he can its just tough because he’s gone usually longer than I am. I’m lucky enough to get home around 5, 4 nights a week. Thanks for the advice it is always needed!

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